Monday, January 03, 2011

Super thought of the day!-It was meant to be.

Whatever is showing up in your current experience is meant to be there or it wouldn't be. 


I can't anything more comforting than this. Why did I make the decisions that I made? Because they looked right to me at that point in time. Why did I not get through Capitaland.  Every bit of my existence knows that I left no stone unturned. Why did I lose my job? Why did they have to call back the team in Jan10 just to return in May? I lost my job because of that decision. They could have offered me a solution but they chose not to! I did not find anything for the next 6 months. There was no way I would have tried in advertising if I had the job because it would not pay! Why did Interbrand not offer me or the companies I kept applying to while I was in Singapore? Why did that consultant from randtad in July when I was in India and not earlier? I have no idea which application did she respond to? I had been applying. 


I was meant to have the JWT experience, promodome and bullshit! I was meant to go through the crap and whatever it is even happening right now.


All this is a part of my life experience. Malayesh is dead. Had he made a different decision in the choice of campus placement, MBA, day, dinner, time, he would have been alive! The fact is he is dead because it was meant to happen. Otherwise, he would have had a kid by now and he would have been enjoying the bliss of life with his wife. 


Just do your work. The mission is happiness. I have been trying to seek my happiness and I have just had a lot of missed-takes. Let me shoot again till I hit happiness and it is mine. If I am meant to live, I will live. If I am not meant to live, I won't. Don't kill yourself.


Lets live each day as the first and the last day of life. Yesterdays are dead. Tomorrows are not guaranteed. so just do what you can. If Helen Keller could say that 


"All was not lost" after losing 3 of her senses, how can all be lost for me? And what did she do to create what happened to her? Nothing. There is a thing called destiny. Forgive yourself. You have always done the best to seek happiness. You will only get what's there is your share. 


Whatever is showing up in your current experience is meant to be there or it wouldn't be. There would have been something else.

the tiny Buddha

Really needed to hear this!

2 comments:

Sound of anklets said...

so good, so true.
darkness is necessary to understand the essence of light

amar said...

:) this was an important post and a very important thought in the transformation of my thinking this year! the beginning of my turning into a determinist!