Saturday, October 25, 2008

My Gratitude List!

I had the blues coz I had no shoes
till walking on the road, I saw a man who had no legs!

Life is ful of reasons.
There are so many reasons to cry

Life is full of reasons
There are so many reasons to smile

Wow, when they say it's all a matter of attitude, they are right. I am a blesses person and so are the people reading it as it shows they have had the blessing of education and they can access to internet. Think Africa, they do not have access to food either.

Here is my gratitude list

My friends and family who love and care for me

My health with everything intact :)

Excellent education that I continue to receive

The company of great people

Employment opportunities

Freedom to do anything I can

The food I eat, the places I can see, the technology I can use

I can go on adding....the most important is that I am alive and I have the blessing to stay in this world and contribute to my and other's well being. Many people die early, do not get any problems, cannot make any mistakes. I can and I will enjoy the thrill of life, with it's absurdities.

I am blessed

circle of concern, circle of control

The circle of concern includes everything we would want to change (for example, the president of USA) and the circle of control includes things we can change.

I live in the circle of control and do not bother about things in the circle of concern.


For every ailment under the sun
There be a solution or there be none
If there be one, go find it
If there be none, never mind it

God, grant me the serenity to
Change the things I can
And accept the things that I can’t
And the wisdom to know the difference


Amen

rules!

I will not fret over petty issues. And I have realised that one of the most petty issues in this world over which we think we have control but not quite is MONEY. Think about, there is always a better deal available somewehere and someone will tell you!!! Imagine, I should have been MBA a year back, after all I was admitted to the JAN 07 session. Think of the salary lost and the xtra money I have had to pay. Just do yout best about it and once the deal is done, do not think about it. You will never have enough of it and you can never be absolutely prudent about it.

or let me fix this another way. I have bought the worst deals available in the market and will continue to do so!!! losing money is a hereditary problem ;:)

Thursday, October 23, 2008

quotes i love!

Man is born to live and not to prepare to live...

what a wonderful and meaningful quote this is. Most of my life till very recently I prepared to live! What an utter waste of life. I studied BCOM so when I graduate, I will find some job! I tried chartered accountancy in pain so when I become one, I will be happy. I did all sorts of things so that when I achieve them, I will be happy. The most painful of them all, spent years on the agonising CAT paper so when I get into a B-school, I will be happy!!!

but what about the process!!!! what about the journey??? if you spend 90 years of your life in trying to acheive anything while being in pain throughout the journey, it aint worth it coz life has slipped by.

A goal is something that you would love to achieve and you will enjoy the process of achieving it. ALL THOSE JERKS WHO TRICK YOU INTO SAYING THAT YOU MUST SACRIFICE YOUR PRESENT FOR YOUR FUTURE ARE FOOLING YOU FOR WATEVER REASONS OF THEIRS. IGNORE THEM

do not waste a single day of your life working on something you hate

you have come to this world to contribute to it using what you have got and what you are naturally good at!do it!

have fun in the procss, the journey is not as good as the destination,

THE JOURNEY IS ALL THAT'S IMPORTANT, THE DESTINATION MAY NEVER SHOW UP YOU SEE!

The perfect job!

I am slowly reaching to a conclusion, right or wrong.

If there is any perfect job is this world, that will incorporate everything I love and would like to do- travel, books, media, writing, public speaking, thinking, events, adventure and ......

can not be created by someone else. I will have to design it myself :) as soon as possible

My expansion of LIFE

L-love
I-intensity
F-fun
E-energy

This is one of my frameworks for evaluating if I would like to take up a particular task. Given a choice, I will take it only if I can put

L.I.F.E

into it

I do not do anything because I "have to" do it. The only reason I do something is because I want to do it.

I want to do it because it exites me, I love doing it and passionate about it. And it contributes to the development of my environment

the potent 5 defining amarocks

a-assertiveness
e-energy
i-inquisitivess
o-optimism
l-leadership

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Leadership Opportunities!

They say opportunities come disguised in the form of hard work, so most people do not see them.

I think leadership opportunities come in the form of hard work, dissonance, conflict and possible chaos, criticism and mess which will have to be sorted out by the one who takes the opportunity.

Leaders are gap fillers and it takes a lot to fill the gaps.

Monday, October 20, 2008

a final statement, if you will

I have had a good past and an outstanding future

Sunday, October 19, 2008

stick to your purpose

when things get chaotic, it's even more important to stay focussed on what's more important. stick to your purpose and do not let judgements affect you, everybody has a right to their judgement and

so do i. the purpose is to enjoy myself while making maximu contribution. do that.

lost in the rush!!!

I really need a break, have been emphasizing the importance of the journey for some time now but i guess, I have not been enjoying off late. I need to sit down calmly and think again about if I am spending my time on wats important or may be decide wats exactly is important to me from here on.

I really need to slow down a bit and look within, yet again. will happen soon.