Few critical observations....
People do not give a damn to what is right, i am not saying that the do not know what is right, they very well know it. The truth is in most cases, doing the right thing takes time and effort and most people avoid it.
Think about it....how many times you fret and fume because people do not behave in the way you expect them to behave thinking you know them a bit at least!!! Think about:
Marriages: Instantly you should be able to think about a friend or acquaintance who married an idiot or a proclaimed jerk!!
Fast Food: We know it does not help our health, but then it is an industry in itself and growing by billions
Religious Fast: Heard about people who observe fasts and eat what according to them is the right diet for someone who's fasting!!!
Votes: Did not she/he just vote a friend of theirs rather than voting the deserving candidate just to avoid confrontation with the friend?
Do not give me crap that this does not happen. It happens all the time and today I am deciding not to let all this bug me.
One thing is clear. I want to be with people who take the extra effort to do what is the right thing to do, at least most times. I cannot throw myself away from the society because most people are such.
However, I will not allow myself to get irritated if:
• People do not do what they say (the world is hypocrisy globalized)
• They marry idiots
• They go out with idiots
• They eat crap
• They do not thank me (thanks Dale Carnegie who says lack of gratitude is something you must expect)
• They give lectures and do not just do anything
Next time, someone does something strange, do not fret and fume. Expect crap to happen.
Not many people think why are things the way they are!!!
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