i am not well!

All right, this post is dedicated to the sentence, "i am not well" and cannot show at work.

First of all, who cares if you are not well?? why can't you bloody take care of yourself?? we will have to manage without you, what else can we do? and if you continue to be not well, we will phase you out??

Your life works as good as your presence. In the real world, whatever that means, there is no space for not being well, you have got to take care of yourselves and show up for work.

If you are not well, you will create a day where your existence will become completely irrelevant.

So the rules are:

1. Do not get into a situation where you have to say, "I am not well"
2. If you do get in this situation, do not expect sympathy. Apathy and indifference is better

Take care of yourselves and justify your existence ;)

the inexplicability of the easily explained!!!

we tend to explain everything, i mean everything. More so, we are eager to explain and come out with answers to our behavior

so many decisions in life are taken on intuition, snap judgment. We just cannot explain why we do what we do at times. there is no need to...

just let some things be...there are decisions we just know are right...do not ask us why...everything cannot be answered...some of those things just cannot be explained...

Dr William James said...

Every time a resolve or a fine glow of feeling is allowed to evaporate without bearing the practical fruit is worse than a chance lost, it hinders future resolutions and emotions from taking their normal path of discharge. It becomes a self-defeating prophesy.

Every positive impulse must be answered!!!

Run towards things you like, run towards your desires, your wants, run towards people you get attracted to

just go get it!!!!PERIOD.

NOW

the importance of convenience!!!

Few critical observations....

People do not give a damn to what is right, i am not saying that the do not know what is right, they very well know it. The truth is in most cases, doing the right thing takes time and effort and most people avoid it.

Think about it....how many times you fret and fume because people do not behave in the way you expect them to behave thinking you know them a bit at least!!! Think about:

Marriages: Instantly you should be able to think about a friend or acquaintance who married an idiot or a proclaimed jerk!!

Fast Food: We know it does not help our health, but then it is an industry in itself and growing by billions

Religious Fast: Heard about people who observe fasts and eat what according to them is the right diet for someone who's fasting!!!

Votes: Did not she/he just vote a friend of theirs rather than voting the deserving candidate just to avoid confrontation with the friend?

Do not give me crap that this does not happen. It happens all the time and today I am deciding not to let all this bug me.

One thing is clear. I want to be with people who take the extra effort to do what is the right thing to do, at least most times. I cannot throw myself away from the society because most people are such.

However, I will not allow myself to get irritated if:

• People do not do what they say (the world is hypocrisy globalized)
• They marry idiots
• They go out with idiots
• They eat crap
• They do not thank me (thanks Dale Carnegie who says lack of gratitude is something you must expect)
• They give lectures and do not just do anything

Next time, someone does something strange, do not fret and fume. Expect crap to happen.

Not many people think why are things the way they are!!!

every single minute is precious

my purpose says there is no tomorrow and it will be true one of these days!!!

every singl minute is precious and it is costing tremendous amount of money. Not just money, it is costing me family time and it is costing not just me!!! The opportunity costs are stupendous!!!.

And what the hell have i been doing for the past few days???? I have been wasting time uselessly. THERE IS JUST NO TIME TO WASTE, NOT A MINUTE

if every single minute is not being used in my growth and development, it is a waste of tiime. I will not sleep over 5-6 hours a day at the most and finish everything that's pending and it's quite a lot.

now read news for the interview and stop irritating me and do not let this crap like dental problems to bug you. there are more important things in life to take care of. remember at any time 99% of the things are anyways going right. if you waste your time on 1% that's wrong, your choice!!!!! HOW YOU FEEL IS THE RESULT OF WHAT YOU FOCUS ON. i will take time in the evening to write my gratiude list here.

go spread HELP, seize the day

the future is knocking from all sides...

I must admit that I am bit anxious these days...the future has always been uncertain but this is a very interesting phase, of course interesting is a euphemism!!!

It's like when i graduated and looked for jobs here and there, of course I am in a better place now and companies will come looking for us. But, I will start a new career this time and will take up responsibilities which I cannot see at this time...

i did an MBA because i always saw myself as a leader and i have been able to prove my mettle in the business school by taking many initiatives and successfully running multiple forums and events. Then what am I afraid of? I want to land up where my energies will be put to use and I will be able to create the maximum leverage...wow, that sounds nice whatever that means...

by the way, i really need to get comfortable with where I am heading...Mr Yousouf said do not close the doors open to you and I have taken his advise. I want a marketing job and if i get it, i will succeed at it...i know i do not give a damn if i have to go out in the sun and meet customers, i know i can do anything...i will never get too big for anything...

Actually, i should be pretty comfortable with myself....leaving IT which i do not understand, I can get myself to do anything. Financial services should not be too difficult to understand and anyways, i will not be doing debit and credit, i will be responsible to decide the markets on the basis on ansoff's model and come out with marketing strategies to penetrate the market. wow...i am sure i will succeed

I just want to re-assure myself while writing this thing that I am very good, actually I am excellent, I am the only person in this crowd who started a leader's forum, gave a talk in big picture, organised events in sports and culture, started a kotler series, assumed responsibilities way beyond academics throughout the year....i am a star...i will create value whereever i go...it's for me to decide what's best for me...

just be clear at every step and listen to your body and mind....you will get through...and everything will be fine.....i promise...i will make sure...everything will be fine....

i love you jugnu ;) really, i will take care of you

my dental history

well, there is one thing that I have grown up with, and it is regular visits to dentists throughout my life....Dr. Pradeep Jaina in CP who worked on my denture for years on end and although he used to say that he would work on it till i get married, i got bored after about 7 years and got rid of him...

still it did not end there. I have had to visit doctors in gurgaon, singapore and just now I am coming from a visit in Dubai ;) one of the tooth in which this doc in gurgaon did a root canal in has been damaged and this guy will now put a cap on it!!!!

imagine!!! I am a bit scadalized right now and shocked. imagine, i have got used to those machines and this guy sitting on my head and doing something in my mouse!!! but i want peace right now and meditate for a while to come back to my senses.

got a lot of work pending, hope i do this fast...

okay bye