Showing posts with label who i am. Show all posts
Showing posts with label who i am. Show all posts

Monday, December 12, 2011

POML Revised

to question. to understand. 


to read. to write. 


to run. 


to groove to music. 


to laugh. to do anything for a laugh.


to love. 


to do all this everyday. 


like there ain't a tomorrow. like there wasn't a yesterday.

Saturday, November 26, 2011

'mai mannchala' and 'shadyantr vivah'


mannchala mai mannchala 
chala mai jahan mera mann chala

bavra sa mann hai
kabhi kuch chahe 
kabhi kuch aur...

maaan leta hu iski
to khush ho jata hai
phir kuch dinon baad kehta hai
bas ho gya
chal le lete hain mor...

bahut kuch dikhaya isne
bahut kuch sikhaya isne
kabhi pyar to kabhi 
dard ka ehsas bhi karaya isne

sunta to hun mai sabki 
karta hu apne mann ki

kuch dinon ki zindagi hai
jeele mere dost
nach, ga, hans, khel
zarurat pade to ro le

jab rah samaj na aaye 
to bas....apne mann ke sang hole

mai chala mai chala
jahan mera mann chala

mai manchala

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shadtantr vivah

na tum hame jaano
na hum tumhe jaane
tumhare pappa ne di thi matrimonial ad
mere pappa ne mujhe sunayi
jab mai gayi thi nahane

gudiya dekho ye ladka zabardast hai
IT company me kaam karta hai
tankhwah 10 lakh
caste kayast hai

mere pappe ne tumhare pappa ko phone ghumaya
aur do family ayin milne
do ghante waste kare tumhari mummy bol
hum log madern hai,
ladka ladki akele baat karlen

ab tum bhi horny hum bhi horny
wait kar kar ke umr ho gyi tees
ab to shaq hone laga hai
ki hamme hai bhi ke nahi
apposite sex to attract karne wali cheez!?

ab shadi nahi karenge to baate karenge log
maro goli logon ko
chalo shadi karke khelenge sambhog sambhog

horny frustrated ladka ladki razi 
to kya karega kaazi

baat ban gayi to theek hai
varna divorce ke baad
keh denge maa baap ganwar the
kar gaye zindagi barbad

ao karle shadyantr vivah



Wednesday, April 13, 2011

A misfit

I am a misfit. That's who I am.

Saturday, April 09, 2011

Kill Fear

It's only after we have lost everything that we are free to do anything!

Now isn't this true... Maybe yes, maybe not. But think about it for a second. How are people controlled on this planet? By fear. Fear from this, fear from that, fear from whatever. Fear, fear and more f*#king fear. Now that is really stupid. People are afraid to REALLY be alive, to do what they really want to do, to live the life they really want to live. Why? Because they think too much about what other people think of them. They are not free. People that give a damn about other peoples opinion CANNOT BE FREE to do anything and to enjoy themselves.

Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Friday, March 25, 2011

Do What You Love!- Another story

I believe that people should take pride in what they do, even if it is scorned or misunderstood by the public at large.

I have been a professional skateboarder for 24 years. For much of that time, the activity that paid my rent and gave me my greatest joy was tagged with many labels, most of which were ugly. It was a kids' fad, a waste of time, a dangerous pursuit, a crime.

When I was about 17, three years after I turned pro, my high school "careers" teacher scolded me in front of the entire class about jumping ahead in my workbook. He told me that I would never make it in the workplace if I didn't follow directions explicitly. He said I'd never make a living as a skateboarder, so it seemed to him that my future was bleak.

Even during those dark years, I never stopped riding my skateboard and never stopped progressing as a skater. There have been many, many times when I've been frustrated because I can't land a maneuver. I've come to realize that the only way to master something is to keep it at — despite the bloody knees, despite the twisted ankles, despite the mocking crowds.

Skateboarding has gained mainstream recognition in recent years, but it still has negative stereotypes. The pro skaters I know are responsible members of society. Many of them are fathers, homeowners, world travelers and successful entrepreneurs. Their hairdos and tattoos are simply part of our culture, even when they raise eyebrows during PTA meetings.

So here I am, 38 years old, a husband and father of three, with a lengthy list of responsibilities and obligations. And although I have many job titles — CEO, Executive Producer, Senior Consultant, Foundation Chairman, Bad Actor — the one I am most proud of is "Professional Skateboarder." It's the one I write on surveys and customs forms, even though I often end up in a secondary security checkpoint.

My youngest son's pre-school class was recently asked what their dads do for work. The responses were things like, "My dad sells money" and "My dad figures stuff out." My son said, "I've never seen my dad do work."

It's true. Skateboarding doesn't seem like real work, but I'm proud of what I do. My parents never once questioned the practicality behind my passion, even when I had to scrape together gas money and regarded dinner at Taco Bell as a big night out.

I hope to pass on the same lesson to my children someday. Find the thing you love. My oldest son is an avid skater and he's really gifted for a 13-year-old, but there's a lot of pressure on him. He used to skate for endorsements, but now he brushes all that stuff aside. He just skates for fun and that's good enough for me.

You might not make it to the top, but if you are doing what you love, there is much more happiness there than being rich or famous.

Who am I?

Who Am I?
I am
A writer-I write to change the world for good. I write what I feel strongly about. I can sell anything I am convinced about through my writing.
A poet-I love the rhythm of words. And I love creating inspiring poetry.
A man who loves words and the English language
A man who loves reading books
A man driven by passion for his work
A passionate and inspiring Public Speaker
A stand up comic- I love to make people laugh. Whatever it takes
A philosopher- Philosophy is the study of general and fundamental problems, such as those connected with existence, knowledge, values, reason, mind, and language. It is distinguished from other ways of addressing such problems by its critical, generally systematic approach and its reliance on rational argument. The word "philosophy" comes from the Greek φιλοσοφία (philosophia), which literally means "love of wisdom".
A man who loves psychology- Psychologists explore such concepts as perception, cognition, attention, emotion, phenomenology, motivation, brain functioning, personality, behavior, and interpersonal relationships.
A Teacher-I like conducting leadership workshops and learning from great men and women. You can't teach a man anything, you can only help him find it within himself.
A health freak, A runner- I love being in a state of great health and would love to help people attain it as well.

An Incurable optimist- it’s tough to beat me forever. Sometimes I do fall but I rise often than I fall.
A traveler- whenever I get a chance and have some cash and time.

Now create a life just being who I am. Create a business system around all of this. And as you find more things you love, just keep expanding the list.


Born to write
Born to be a stand up comic
Born to explain human behavior (philosophy, psychology)
Born to create happiness
Born to be a motivational and inspirational speaker
Born to teach
Born to wander
Born to infect the love of English language and great literature
Born to lead

The World needs you to do what you love!

The World Needs You to Do What You Love

Article by Zen Habits contributor Jonathan Mead.

The greatest change happens because of people that are deeply passionate, and have a great love for the work they do.

If you want to make a difference in the world, the single most important thing you can do is consciously and deliberately choose to do work that you are passionate about.

No other choice can have a greater impact on the planet, or your life.

If you’re doing work that’s boring, you probably won’t make much of an impact. You might provide people with some amount of value. Enough to pay your rent, enough to get by. But you won’t be inciting change. And you certainly won’t be inspiring others.

If you’re doing boring work, chances are you do just enough to not get fired.

But if you do work that excites you, keeps you up at night, and fulfills you… you’ll do more. You’ll give yourself to it completely. You’ll put in extra time, more energy, more passion. Because it’s worth it. It’s satisfying.

At the end of the day you’ll think: “My time was well spent today.”

So the real question isn’t whether or not to do boring or passionate work. The question is how to get started.

Five things you can do to move toward getting paid to do what you love:

  1. Find your passion. This is all about your great love, and what makes you come alive. To get started here, ask: “What am I insanely interested in?” “What could I talk about for hours?” and “What would I do for free?”
  2. Find your strengths. What we’re looking for are things you’re naturally good at, and the unique strengths you’ve had since birth. This is about contributing your gifts to the world. To get started, interview your friends, family, or peers and ask them what three things you’re naturally talented at.
  3. Find your value. Finding the intersection between what you’re good at and what people are willing to pay you for is what it all boils down to. If you can’t find a way to get paid to do what you love, the other stuff doesn’t really matter. So it’s worth spending some time figuring this out. To get started, think about the benefits you’ll give others by contributing your value. Think about whether or not there is a desperate pain or a deep passion involved in what you’re offering.
  4. Make the commitment. I think, more than any other reason, people fail to succeed is because they fail to commit. Thinking “I don’t know” or “maybe someday” will not get you to the point of doing what you’re passionate about for a living. It takes an uncompromising commitment to make this change for yourself. Instead of thinking “I don’t know,” think “I’ll figure it out.” Remember, paths are made by walking.
  5. Be willing to let go. As much as you might want to make this change for yourself, it can be hard to let go of the old patterns of thinking and behaving. A lot of us have ideas that “work shouldn’t be fun” or “you should just suck it up.” Breaking down those beliefs can be difficult, but moving toward a new direction is most definitely worth it.
  6. What will you give up? You might not think that you have time to take on a new endeavor, and you’re right. You won’t have time until you make the time. There are a lot of things we place in our schedules that we think we must do. But in reality, our world wouldn’t collapse if we chose something else. Make a list of all the activities and time sinks that you’ll give up in order to make time for your new journey.
  7. Will you say Yes to yourself? You may want to become a writer, dentist, life coach, painter, or public speaker. If you know that this is what you’re meant to do, then give yourself permission to call yourself that… even if you’re not established yet. And even if you don’t make a full time income from it. Own your passion, completely and unreservedly.

While there is more to your journey than just these seven things, this is a huge start. Clarity and commitment are the biggest steps, the rest is easy. One foot in front of the other.

You will get there. No one can stop you if you want it enough.

And remember, the world needs you to do what you love. Nothing else can create more change, or have a greater impact.

Give yourself permission. We need your gifts.

This article was written by Zen Habits contributor, Jonathan Mead ofIlluminated Mind.

Saturday, March 05, 2011

I am a positive magnate

I am a positive magnate
I attract the positivity of the world

The world is full of positive and negative information
I attract only the positive
I read positive books
I watch positive movies
I talk positive language

Negativity just stays there and does not come to me. I ignore it.

I attract positivity. The best that the world and life has to offer.


what kind of movies do I like?

Movies to me, should either 'entertain' or 'inspire'

everything else is a waste of time and money.

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Praise and Criticism

Praise in Public. Coach in Private.

Just don't criticize.

Criticize: to censure or find fault with.

Thursday, December 30, 2010

Good bye 2010! Welcome 2011

Today is the last day of a very dramatic year. An important year in the history of my life. It was tough not having a job for many months in the beginning of the year. It was challenging trying to start afresh as a beginner in advertising and letting go of all I had done in the last 5 years.

It wasn't or ain't easy quite.

It was quite a satisfying experience writing my first book. "Snippets of Life from an Eccentric" will always be my first book irrespective of how many books I write. It will always be close and special to me. I tried being a stand up comic recently. I screwed up so badly. But that's okay.

Things take their own time. Life is it's own precious journey and there is always destiny walking by your side and it will decide what's going to happen and when it will happen. That said, I have achieved many important goals that I had 10 years back. Somehow it just took much longer. However, I have just reached the right track.

Enough nonsense! This bastard hit my car in the morning, I mean on the last day of the year! So, shall I cry? Would that be of any help? Chuck it! I am feeling dazed.

I look forward to 2011. I know how badly I do. There is so much I want to achieve. There is so much I want to be.

  • A successful writer
  • A crazy, loud, hilarious stand up comic
  • A super advertising pro
  • A transformational motivational speaker
  • A marathon runner

Yeah right!Lots of work.

Happy 2011. Happiness is everything.